Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Not Sure I'm That Kreativ

Ryan over at The Woven Moments gave me this loverly award recently.




Coincidentally when I had actually given her the 7x7 award I had received.

So the challenge is to come up with 7 random things about me. Because I just tagged a bunch of people in my 7x7 post, I'm not going to tag anyone. I decided to make this 7 things I am afraid of.

1. I'm afraid of carcass. I love meat, but I can't deal with anything in the form it was when it was alive. One of my biggest accomplishments was making Thanksgiving turkey. I only cried for a few minutes. It's not like I feel there's a soul or whatever, it's just too primal for me to deal with.

2. I'm constantly afraid people will be hurt. Whenever I hear a traffic accident or see anything on the news, I have to go through in my head where all my loved ones are to see if they are in the vicinity. If they were, I have to call or e-mail. One time there was an accident near where Scott was working and he didn't answer his cell. I cried for an hour, paced for another hour, texted and called him excessively. Turned out he was on a job site with no cell phone access. He thought it was "sweet" that someone cared that much. And he now knows to text me whenever he will be late, even if it means leaving his work site.

3. I'm afraid to speak Spanish. I'm technically fluent. I studied it through college, I can understand it almost perfectly. I can speak it almost perfectly...technically. But I am so afraid of being judged, I don't speak it enough with native speakers, and therefore my accent isn't what it used to be, which makes me more afraid. Here was just one incident where this was a bad thing.

4. I'm afraid I have no personal style. I'm always jealous of people who walk in a room, no matter their size or appearance, and they just OWN it. Because they are 100% confident in their skin and style. Here's a good example of why I am like this, and why it bothers me.

5. I'm afraid I'll miss things. I'm about to take on some things in life that will mean more time away from Wee 'Burb. While I want to believe in the long run that this will show her that women can hold positions of power, that I will do almost anything to try to relate to what my daughter will be going through in the future, the reality is in the "now" I will miss some things. And I worry she will resent me for it instead of really understanding why I do it. I know, I know. She's not even 2.

6. I'm afraid I won't be able to let go of my body issues. I am working so hard, between seeing a nutritionist  and a personal trainer and meal planning. I don't ever want my daughter to be where I am, to be feeling like despite my best efforts, I will not be able reach the goals I wanted for my body. I want her to love food and not worry about what it will do. I want her to try new foods, to always see healthy as a flavorful option. And yet, I know that her growing up in this media-rich collarbone-obsessed society...that's not likely. And a part of me dies every day knowing she might look in the mirror and not see how amazing she is.

7. I'm afraid the wrong decision will lead to ruin. I'm not talking about my recent car drama, but more that as I look to change some things in my life, particularly as it relates to work, that it will be wrong for my family. Currently I am the breadwinner and there's pressure to make all the right financial decisions to make sure we're all taken care of. If I fail, for once it's not just me who will fall, it could be my family, our lifestyle. In a weird way, the pressure is exciting and driving, and then on the other hand of course it's just stifling and overwhelming.

What are you afraid of?

7 comments:

The Woven Moments said...

Love your take on this 7 random things!

I went back and read your style post- and I have to say that you may struggle with fashion style but when it comes to writing style? You are rolling in it, girl.

You know I can relate to the body issues. Hang in there. Baby steps.

Hugs!

Amanda @ It's Blogworthy said...

I'm also the breadwinner and it's hard sometimes. I mean, breadwinner by A LOT, so if something happens wtih my job we're toast. That's what I'm scared of mostly -- not being able to afford groceries, losing our house.

I'm also terrified of something happening to Luke. I work in a hospital and so I hear all these awful stories of the worst things happening, and I can't help but let my mind go there sometimes.

Life As Wife said...

Literally speaking, I'm terrified of spiders. Ugh they are so small they can hide anywhere! Hate it!

As far as what am I afraid of that is not an object I have all kinds of new fears that are kid-related. Also scared of time wasting it. Weird huh?

Mads said...

This was such a great post! I have some of the same fears (afraid to speak french, no personal style, and body issues). You have some mad insight skills.
I think my biggest fears are that I:
-Won't be able to live up to my preconceived standards of "success".
-Will never look at my body with love like I do for the rest of me.
-That I will die with really loud happy music on in the background. I don't know why this is a fear, but I always turn the radio down when I'm in a stressful driving situation.

comfortablydomestic.com said...

What a great, honest post. I think that most women can relate to body issues stemming from comments made by others. I have found that the less I worry about how other people look or think of how I look, the more comfortable I am with myself. Consequently, the easier it was for me to relax and really discover my own style. I have many irrational fears:
-that either my husband or my kids will meet an untimely end and I will be alone.
-that I will meet an untimely end and leave my family alone.
-that I will be attacked by a shark if I swim in the ocean.
-walking into a room full of people that I don't know (alone) and having to mingle.

Missy said...

Oh girl. I'm not afraid I have no personal style. I KNOW I have no style. I call myself the "unfashionable." :)

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